‘and unfortunately this means that you will need IVF to have any chance of conceiving a baby’. For some reason for me when these words were uttered to us, I wasn’t too upset, I’m such a glass is half full kind of person, I was absolutely confident that IVF was ok, it would work for us, in fact my confidence was so high (like it had been years ago when we started trying for a baby), that I believed it would happen the first time!